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Monthly Archive: December 2019

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December 2019

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Transfer of Residency Number

Written by , Posted in Getting Ready, Move to UK: Before You Go

Here’s a fun thing: when you move to the UK, if you don’t apply for a Transfer of Residence (TOR) number first, they might charge you tax on things you already own.

Weird, right? I mean, I don’t know if other countries do this, but I didn’t realize it was a thing.

We first found out about this when we called the pet import company recommended to us by the airline we would be flying on to London. We needed the TOR to avoid paying tax on the cats we had adopted six years prior.

But we also found that it came in handy when we shipped items. The person who printed out all the customs forms to attach to our boxes of belongings just wrote the term “Personal belongings – moving to UK. Transfer of Residence #” on each form. I’m not sure if that ended up making a difference, but I do know our items cleared customs quickly and none were pulled out for additional inspection.

Regardless, if you are moving your car, or your pets, you’ll definitely need it, so get going on it as early in the process as possible, as it takes a couple of weeks to arrive via email.

The forms you need are here. You’ll be asked to include supporting documentation, like a copy of your job offer letter, or your marriage certificate or birth certificates for your kids. Our files were large, so I ended up sending three emails total.

As part of the application, they ask for a list of items you’ll be bringing over. We kept it pretty high level and only got specific with very expensive things. For example, we said “clothing and personal care items,” but specified “two laptops” and “three video game systems.” I think we also said “dozens of books.”

If you have pets you’ll need to include it in the paperwork you send to the pet importers ahead of time so again, don’t leave this to the last minute.

Sunday

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December 2019

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The Basics

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Once you have your visa, there’s a lot to take care of. If you own a house, you have to figure out if you’re going to rent it or sell it. If you’re renting, you have to give notice to your landlord. If you have a job, you have to let them know you’re leaving. You have to figure out what you’re going to do with your belongings, your pets, etc.

This section is to help you get through these days, which go by VERY quickly.

When we moved, we did it during the winter holiday season. So take what you’re going through now, and throw in a week-long trip to visit all immediate family members, plus trying to see the friends you’re moving away from, and you can probably see that this can be an emotionally draining as well as physically tiring time.

Being organized can help. For us, we found that creating a shared Google spreadsheet was a good way to put on paper all the things we needed to do.

We had a tab for each general area, and then listed the tasks and who was responsible. For us, that included:

  • Jobs (and the visa stuff)
  • Health (like reminders to get in appointments before losing insurance)
  • London Living (including researching neighborhoods)
  • Renting our house
  • Actual move (flights, etc.)
  • Furniture (what we wanted to sell / store / give away)
  • Car
  • Finances
  • Cats
  • Shipping (a tab for each box, with contents, because they ask you for the details of what’s inside when you ship overseas)

In the very beginning it can seem overwhelming, but we found this spreadsheet was a great way to keep in focus all that we needed to get done to make sure that the move was as as easy as possible.

To be clear: it’s not going to be easy.

But it could be extraordinarily hard, and no one wants that, right?

Sunday

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December 2019

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What Happens Next

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Okay, so you’ve attended your biometrics appointment. You’re almost there!

Next you have to send all of the documentation in. Follow the directions of your immigration attorney exactly, and double check everything. If your application is rejected, you (or your new employer) doesn’t get that application fee back, so yeah, follow the rules. For example, you will need a passport photo, and the rules stipulate that you need to have your hair down, your glasses off, and not smile.

We decided that it was worth it to send all the documentation to the immigration attorney overnight. We shipped using UPS, and of course it didn’t actually get delivered the next day. And because it was near a holiday, it ended up arriving a full four days after we sent it. Considering it needs to be submitted within ten days of your biometric appointment, this could have been an issue. It wasn’t (it got there in plenty of time), but on the plus, side, UPS had to refund our money since they didn’t deliver as promised.

If all goes well, then within a week or so you should hear from your attorney that your visas have been approved! A couple of days later, you should receive a package with:

  • Your passport
  • Entry visas pasted into your passport
  • Letter to present at customs

Now you can book a flight!

Sunday

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December 2019

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The Biometrics Appointment

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It’s called ‘biometrics’ because they take both your finger- and hand-prints as well as a photograph.

Plus it sounds super futuristic and kind of scary, so they probably like that.

Because it’s a necessary part of the visa process, I want you to know what to expect.

  1. Bring whatever the immigration attorney / website says to bring, including a letter with your appointment details. You’ll also need your passport, and a couple of passport photos.
  2. When you arrive you’ll check in, they’ll look at your appointment sheet and stamp it, and then direct you to sit in a certain place and give you a number. When your number is called, they’ll take your appointment sheet and enter some information into their system.
  3. They’ll take a picture of you, and then print you. They don’t ink up your hand anymore – they just put your hand on this glass thing that takes it all digitally

That’s it! I think we were done in maybe 30 minutes?

Also, random: be prepared to need to pay cash for parking at the location. We had no cash on us and almost missed our appointment. I don’t know how they get away with charging people to park at a government facility that they need to go to, but they do.

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December 2019

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Documentation

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Student

If you are applying for a student visa, you will need to provide your offer letter. You will also need a U.S. passport (make sure it doesn’t expire in the next six months) with at least one fully empty sheet that they can affix the visa to.

Work

If you are applying for yourself and your partner or dependent children, you’ll need passports for all, along with proof that they are related to you, or that you have lived together for a certain period of time. For us, that meant our marriage certificate. For those who aren’t married, there is other documentation you’ll need to prove you’re living together. We also had to include our name change order, because we both changed our last name when we married, which meant this version of us has only existed for a few years.

If you’re working with an immigration attorney, they might send you an internal form that asks all the questions that need to be completed on the application. Here are some of the things that we had to look up: you’ll save some time if you have this handy.

  • The birth date and birth place of your parents
  • The last five times you’ve traveled outside of the US
  • The addresses of the last ten places you’ve stayed in the UK (which was a giant pain for us, because we took a road trip through Scotland for our honeymoon)
  • If you’ve ever received medical care in the UK, and if so, where you received it
  • The last few places you’ve lived

I thought we’d need to do provide more, but I think our status as married made it easier than it would be for someone who has a partner they aren’t married to.

Sunday

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December 2019

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Visa Timelines

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Let’s work backwards from when you want to arrive to figure out when you need to do what you need to do:

Student

Let’s say that classes start on October 1. You can move into your residence hall on September 25, so that’s your target arrival date.

The initial entry time for visas is 30 days. That’s it. You can enter on the first day, the 30th day, or any day in between, but if you show up 31 days after the visa start date, sorry, but they might not let you in.

I KNOW.

That sucks. So I strongly recommend that you don’t cut it close on the back end. If, say, you want to arrive on September 25, don’t apply for a visa with a start day of August 26. What if your flight is delayed or canceled, and you don’t arrive until September 27? Yikes. Don’t do that.

Instead, aim for a window that puts your target arrival day a week into the window when you want to arrive. So, in this example, the start date could be September 18. It’s possible that, even though you’d have to pay for a hotel for a couple of nights, the airfare from the US is so drastically cheaper if you arrive on September 23 that it’s worth coming in a little early. Or, if there’s a big storm, or a volcano erupts, you could arrive on September 29 or 30 and still be fine.

This site has some great resources and FAQs for student visas, but one thing I want to point out is that you need to apply at least six weeks before you want to go, but cannot apply more than three months before you want to go. So using the scenario above, here’s one possible timeline:

  • June 19 – Earliest possible date to submit visa application
  • August 7 – Last possible date to submit visa application
  • September 18 – Visa Start Date
  • September 25 – Residence Hall Move-In
  • October 1 – Classes Start

Worker

This one takes a little more time due to some of the rules around job offers and requirements to confirm that the non-UK citizen is indeed the only one who can do the job. As an example, here was our timeline:

  • October 16 – Accepted job offer
  • October 18 – Completed visa paperwork
  • October 16 – November 16 – Waiting period (for my partner’s new employer to re-post the job and ensure no UK-based candidates could be found. This doesn’t apply to every worker category, but most)
  • November 21 – Biometrics appointment / shipping documentation to immigration attorney
  • November 30 – Visa application accepted!
  • December 1 – Passports with visas returned to us
  • January 2 – February 1 – Entry window
  • January 10 – Arrived in London
  • January 15 – My partner’s first day at work

A Note About Flights

As I type this, the UK has just approved Boris Johnson’s plan for Brexit, e.g. leaving the EU. I think it’s absurd, and am holding out some totally misplaced hope that someone will exercise some common sense and reverse course, but I think that ship has sailed.

Why does this matter?

If at all possible, try to book a trip that does not include a flight connection through an EU country, because then you won’t be stopping at passport control once you arrive in the UK. And that’s a problem. One that I learned (almost) the hard way.

When I moved to London for graduate school, I booked a flight from NYC through Ireland. I went through immigration in Ireland, then transferred to my Ireland – London flight. When I arrived in London, I just went straight to baggage, collected my items, and headed to my residence hall.

Which meant my visa was never stamped. I’d essentially never arrived.

About six weeks later, a friend and I flew to Barcelona for the weekend (isn’t it so unbelievably cool that you can do that when you live in Europe?!). She headed back to the US and I returned to London. I showed immigration and border control my visa (which didn’t have the original entry stamp), and was confronted by a very stern immigration agent asking where my paperwork was.

It was in my residence hall, shoved on a bookshelf because I didn’t need it anymore, or so I thought.

After a bit of a talking to, the immigration agent asked whether I had my student ID with me. I did, and that served as sufficient proof for them. They stamped my visa and let me in.

Clearly you want to avoid that situation, especially for those coming on a work visa.

Additionally, as of summer 2019, US passport holders are allowed to use the e-gates at customs and immigration. It’s an AMAZING time-saver if you already live here or are just visiting, but you CANNOT use it if you are making your first entry on a visa. Airport staff will try to redirect you to the e-gates. Explain that you need to speak to a real live person to get your visa stamped. They may argue with you. Just be very kind and patient and refuse to use the e-gates. Trust me here.

Sunday

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December 2019

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Visa Basics

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Hopefully you know that you need to secure a visa prior to moving to the UK. As someone with a US passport, you can visit the UK whenever, as long as you don’t stay for longer than six months, and provided you aren’t making money (I’m generalizing here; I’m not an attorney and rules change, so always check).

Students

If you’re a student, the information you need is on the US Embassy site. When I had my student visa, I believe it allowed me to work during school breaks, but only limited hours. Additionally, while I was allowed to make use of the NHS (National Health Service), I was not entitled to ‘benefits,’ meaning, for example, I couldn’t collect government income assistance.

Previous versions of the student visa allowed graduates to remain in the UK for up to two years after while working, although those two years didn’t count towards the number needed to apply for permanent residency. That benefit, sadly, no longer remains.

If you are applying for a student visa, it’s easy enough to do on your own. You need certain documentation and must follow all steps exactly, but generally speaking it’s pretty straightforward. If you have an offer at a legitimate institution of higher education, and aren’t otherwise disqualified (e.g you aren’t a convicted felon), it should be relatively simple.

Workers

Moving to the UK for work is another thing entirely. Generally speaking, the UK will issue a visa if a) you’re super wealthy and want to invest money in starting a company in the UK or b) you are a skilled or highly skilled worker in a field that has a dearth of potential employees.

The details of the steps involved in securing a work visa can be found on the UK government site.

In our case, my partner Austin applied for and was offered a position at a small tech company. His particular tech field is not as large an industry in the UK as in, say, Seattle, so they don’t have as large of a pool of potential employees to choose from.

I strongly recommend that, as part of your negotiations with your new company, you insist that they pay for both the visas and the visa process, as well as contact with an immigration attorney with experience in this field. There are a lot of ways to screw it up, and immigration attorneys do this for a living. It’ll remove a little bit of the stress from the process.

Sunday

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December 2019

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Negotiating Your Move

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If you are being transferred by your company, they will likely cover your costs and help with all of the details by using a relocation company.

If, however, you are moving to take a job with a new company, you should work with them to determine what a fair relocation package would look like and what the company might be able to offer.

While you should keep in mind the size of your new company (and thus their likely available budget), there are a few things that should be included, and a few ‘nice to haves.’

If possible, during the time you’re given to consider an offer, do some research to determine the actual costs. We were shocked at how expensive it was to bring our cats with us, for example, and had we known that cost ahead of time, we would have brought that up with the new company.

Must Include:

  • Immigration Attorney
  • Visa Costs (for the employee, their partner, and any children)
  • Animal relocation costs
  • Flight
  • Shipping of a few boxes of personal items
  • Temporary housing (for at least three weeks, but preferably a month)

Nice to Have:

  • Relocation company to manage all of the details so you don’t have to
  • Shipping of more personal items / furniture (if you’re moving to a place where unfurnished housing is the norm, or if you’re planning on buying a house)

Obviously you’ll have to decide what are actual deal-breakers for you, but don’t assume that you’re asking for the moon here. As you’ll see as you make your way around the different parts of this site, there is a lot involved in managing an international move, and the more you can get assistance with, the better.

Thursday

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December 2019

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F*cking Good Manners by Simon Griffin

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Three Stars

Best for:
People who enjoy a bit of humor with their how-to books.

In a nutshell:
Author Griffin would like you to get some fucking manners.

Worth quoting:
‘As soon as we assume our needs are more important than someone else’s, then everything descends into utter fucking chaos.’

Why I chose it:
I love etiquette books. I use a lot of profanity. Seemed like a natural fit.

Review:
This is a quick read and a mostly pleasant little book. I get the gimmick — there will be swearing! — but it seems that the author forces the work ‘fucking’ into way too many sentences. Not in an offensive way; it just doesn’t flow naturally in a lot of places.

That aside, how’s the advice? Honestly, it’s pretty basic. Not horrible. But the book only gets three stars from me because of the slight undercurrent of ‘both sides are bad’ that runs throughout. Like, this isn’t a particularly political book, but sometimes when the author gives examples of bad behavior, it feels like he’s comparing things that maybe aren’t comparable. Like, in the introduction he talks about ‘hearing both sides’ and how there’s always another side, and I can’t tell if he’s serious that this applies to all the things. Because if that’s the case? Does he recognize that some of those sides are super bad and wrong?

I thought it was maybe just a slight mismatch in tone, but then one of the quotes he uses, at the start of the chapter on manners IN THE WORKPLACE, is from Clarence fucking Thomas. You know, the guy who harassed Anita Hill and ‘found’ a public hair on a coke can that he asked her to come look at? That’s the guy we’re quoting in a book on manners? Come the fuck on, dude.

So yeah, the book isn’t awful, and were it not for the above bits I’d think it’s fine as a cute Christmas or birthday gift, but in the end I can’t recommend it.

Keep it / Pass to a Friend / Donate it / Toss it:
Toss it.

Sunday

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December 2019

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How To by Randall Munroe

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Three Stars

Best for:
People who like science and humor.

In a nutshell:
Author Munroe takes on everyday problems like ‘How to Move’ with increasingly absurd advice like ‘get a bunch of helicopters to do that’, and then explains the science behind it.

Worth quoting:
When discussing using trained birds of prey to knock drones out of the sky: “…but any plan that calls for countering rogue machines by training animals to hurl themselves at them is probably a bad one. We wouldn’t enforce speed limits by training cheetahs to leap onto motorcycles.”

Why I chose it:
I enjoyed his previous two books.

Review:
This book is absurd. That’s not an insult; it’s literally in the title. But absurd is delightful, as Munroe uses physics and other science to offer up silly solutions to problems. For example, what if you need to knock a drone out of the sky? Why not ask Serena Williams to see how many tries it takes a professional tennis player to hit a tennis ball at it? (He did, and she obliged, because she continues to be amazing.) Or what if you need to charge your phone at the airport – any way to harness the energy from the moving escalators?

You aren’t going to actually use any of the advice in this book, but that’s not the point. The point is to incorporate science into our understanding of the world. And it’s once again a clever way to do that. Munroe is a talented teacher, and I’ll probably always buy his books, though Thing Explainer is still my favorite.

I lost a bit of steam reading this book. I started out reading a few chapters before bed each night, and I should have stuck with that. It’s PERFECT for that. It’s not a political book that’s going to rile you up so much you can’t sleep and while some chapters are so funny that you want to keep reading, it’s not like a novel where you just need to know what happens next. My issue came when I tried reading it at other times of the day. I just couldn’t get into it. So, definitely check it out if it sounds interesting, but consider it an ‘over time’ not an ‘all at once’ read.

Keep it / Pass to a Friend / Donate it / Toss it:
Pass to a Friend (my partner)