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The Fault in Our Stars

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Four Stars

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Still on vacation, a friend mentioned this book and I was reminded that I wanted to read it. I’d heard about it a lot (although wasn’t clear on what it was exactly about), and much like the Hunger Games trilogy, I figure if I’m going to end up seeing the movie, maybe I should read the book. I started it at 10AM, and with the exceptions of stopping for lunch and a trip to the pioneer cemetery, I read non-stop until 6PM, when I finished it. It’s good. It’s not my favorite book, and it’s not without issues, but I think it’s a good book.

It’s a little easy to predict what’s going to happen in it (I thought), and some components are super fantastical to the point of absurd, but maybe that is how the world of wish-granting works? Either way, I appreciated the fact that the parents were treated as humans and, more importantly, these young adults were treated as humans. They have complex thoughts and feelings, are forced to be mature without necessarily wanting to be that mature, and have inner lives that aren’t just focused on their CANCER.

I’d be interested in the perspective from kids who have actually gone through the things outlined in this book – is it a realistic portrayal of some of their lives? If it isn’t, it still is an interesting story, with some moments that really resonate. I didn’t finish it thinking “I must change my life forever, and live for the people who can’t,” but I did finish it with the reminder that things are shitty and things are great but most of all, that things ARE and I need to continue experiencing these things even when I just want to curl up in a ball and sleep for days. And while I’m not the target for this book, it certainly is something I needed right about now.

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February 2014

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Etiquette and Espionage

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Three Stars

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So, I screwed up. Somehow I managed to read the second book in this series before reading the first book. On the one hand, I’m bummed as I know what happens after this book, but on the other hand I was happy to get some more background on the characters. However, having read them out of order, I’d probably say that there’s now no excuse for the super quick wrap-up of the plot in the second book. I thought it was because the author was taking her time introducing the characters; turns out that’s not the case.

This book is a fun, quick read. I’m on vacation right now and between naps and big meals I read this book in one day. I enjoyed the introduction to the character I came to like in the second book, and I liked getting some explanation about the other girls at this school, which is ostensibly a finishing school set in steampunk England, but is also an intelligencer training program.

One really odd component, though, was the introduction of the only character that the author felt it necessary to assign an ethnicity, making me think that the author suffers from the same color-blindness that so many authors have – her characters are white, and she assumes everyone will think they are white, so she only really needs to offer descriptions of the ‘others.’ I do not like that, and really wish more authors would create richer, more diverse worlds. If you’re writing fiction, especially fiction with an alternate view of the universe, there’s no need to default to the racial stereotypes and heirarchies that exist. Or, if you’re going to, spend time dissecting those hierarchies and how problematic they are. But describing the one Black character by saying he was covered in soot and then having the main character express shock that he was from Africa once she realized that his skin was also a darker tone? That’s weird and comes across as super ignorant. If the character making that observation were one we weren’t supposed to like, or who didn’t have any complex view of the universe, or if there were any more exploration of the racial structure of the society, maaaaaaaaybe it would work. But it really doesn’t work in this book, and kind of pulled me out of the book for a while as I tried to figure out why the author thought that was an appropriate.

I think having read both books I still would recommend the series with that caveat; I think I might explore her adult stories set in the same type of world and see if she builds a more complex and diverse world there.

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Cursies and Conspiracies

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Three Stars

curtsiesI’m currently in the middle of reading Book 4 of A Song of Ice and Fire, but once again I made the mistake of trying to read it right after finishing the previous book. It just doesn’t work – I need a break. So I asked my friend Jen, who is an author (and the maker of these amazing literature-themed perfumes) and an overall fun woman, for some recommendations. She suggested these YA novels by Gail Carriger.

 

I’ve heard of but never read any steampunk, but it’s possible that I’m going to become a big fan, assuming this book is a good representation of it. Set in a floating finishing / spy school, this book follows Sophronia as she tries to figure out what’s going on at the school, which is run by an oblivious head mistress and has both a vampire and a werewolf on staff. Is this what steampunk usually is? Because AWESOME.

 

The book is YA and a pretty quick read; 300 pages took me about two days to get through. At times I was a little taken out of the story because the names of the technology are absurd, and some of the character names sound a bit like ones I would have come up with when I was writing short stories in elementary school. But beyond that, I think the characters are interesting and the setting is pretty cool. The writing is fine, although the plot took a while to develop and then suddenly was done. However, the book is the first in a series, so I think a lot of it was about developing the characters and the background of the school to set the tone for the next book. Which I will be reading, possibly starting tonight.

 

[Note: This review was written before I started the ‘second’ book and realized that I’d read them out of order. Um, whoops.]

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What I’m Reading – February 9, 2014

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This is a little late because of an awesome weekend away that involved snow, hot chocolate, and lots of good friends.

-Eve Ensler is not doing good work, despite what we may have though. Open Letter to Eve Ensler: A Lesson for Haitians (h/t @ChiefElk)

– Irony. On Seeing Dan Snyder at an Event to Promote Racial Justice (via @EdgeOfSports)

– Related to the ridiculous “Nation” cover article this week: In Defense of Twitter Feminism (via @SueyPark)

– Finally, a lot has been written (much of it disgusting) on Dylan Farrow’s statement regarding the abuse by her father, Woody Allen. Here are some great resources if you’re interested in the story (and why “innocent until proven guilty” isn’t a useful response)

Dylan Farrow, Rape Apologia, & Rape Culture 101 (via @Shakesville)

Nope (via @Shakesville)

Choosing Comfort Over Truth: What It Means to Defend Woody Allen (via @JessicaValenti)

Don’t Listen to Woody Allen’s Biggest Defender (h/t @EdgeOfSports)

10 Undeniable Facts About the Woody Allen Sexual-Abuse Allegation

Visualization of Rape Accusation Statistics (h/t @Dr.JaneChi)

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What I’m Reading – January 30, 2014

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I can tell you what I’m NOT reading – enough books to hit my Cannonball Read VI targets. Damn you, George R. R. Martin, and your excellent but extremely long books!

Stop and frisk continues to be utterly unacceptable. Police Assault Teen So Violently During Search That His Testicles Burst

So many problems with Jezebel, but still this article made me smile. Dudes, Stop Putting Women in the Girlfriendzone (h/t @AllisonKilkenny)

One of the more thoughtful posts on Macklemore, I think. Finding a Place in the Hip-Hop Ecosystem

I voted for her. Sawant to give back 2/3rds of her city councilmember salary

It’s a step. 2nd Grand Jury Indicts Officer in Fatal Shooting of Unarmed Man

Sexism? In politics? No! Painting Wendy Davis as a bad mother is political sexism at its worst (via @scATX)

Yeah, money doesn’t seem to correlate so closely with how hard people actually work. $10.10

The Nation wrote a pretty shitty article this week. Here is a response. Interlopers on Social Media: Feminism, Women of Color and Oppression

They threw out elementary school kids’ lunches. The FUCK. Lunches seized from kids in debt at Salt Lake City elementary

Thursday

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What I’m Reading – January 23, 2014

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You keep using that word, thug. I do not think it means what you think it means.

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So, I’m a 49ers fan, but my second favorite team is the Seahawks. You can see the problem I faced on Sunday. In those last seconds, as Mr. Crabtree jumped for the ball and Mr. Sherman made an AMAZING tip that lead to the interception, my heart dropped but then rose again. The Niners wouldn’t be going to the Super Bowl, but the next best team would be.

As Mr. Sherman walked off the field, he ran up to Mr. Crabtree and smacked him on the rear, then stuck his hand out, as if to say ‘good game.’ Now, I know that these two men dislike each other immensely, as Mr. Sherman would soon show in his post-game interview. So I have a VERY hard time believing that in that moment, Mr. Sherman had any goal other than antagonizing Mr. Crabtree. My husband disagrees, and that’s fine. I also think Mr. Crabtree was WAY out of line in literally shoving Mr. Sherman away from himself. I took to Facebook and posted something to the effect of  ‘great play Sherman – why ruin it by being a jerk,’ referring solely to the ass slap and (seemingly) faux attempt at a ‘good game’ when Mr. Sherman should have known that it would not have been well-received. This comment went up BEFORE the immediate post-game interview that is getting so much coverage.

It soon became quite clear that I’d need to delete that post, lest it mistakenly get added to the cacophony of racism that Mr. Sherman’s post-game interview brought out from White America. I wasn’t commenting on that interview; my post was about that ass tap (heh). I do think his comment about Mr. Crabtree being not a good player is factually inaccurate, but other than that? He just won a giant game by making a sweet play. Is it how I think I’d react? Probably not. But I’m not a sports superstar, so who knows. Maybe I’d be even MORE pumped up.

But here’s the thing – that doesn’t matter. What I’d do isn’t important. Neither, frankly, is any commentary from the sports punditry, or from the jackasses sitting in San Francisco, nursing their wounds, choosing to use the dog whistle euphemism of ‘class’ to suggest (sometimes outrightly) that Mr. Sherman’s post-game interview meant he’s a “thug.” Which, as we all know, is how so many White people think any passionate black person should be characterized.

It’s disgusting, and even if not surprising, it’s such a pointed reminder of how White America expects Black men to act. Any display of passion means he is a ‘thug.’ Even the folks coming to his defence keep saying that hey, this guy has a Stanford degree; obviously he’s no thug. You know what? He doesn’t need a degree from a fancy school to deserve to be treated as a human, not a caricature. Black men are not just ‘respectable’ or not. They aren’t the generic personalities the sports media have assigned to Colin Kaepernick or Russell Wilson. From everything I’ve heard, off the field Mr. Sherman is a pretty awesome man. And on the field he’s clearly a great player. White people need to stop deciding that Black men must be quiet and reserved to be worth any respect. It’s embarrassing.

On February 2, I’ll be rooting for the Seahawks, and come fall 2014, I’ll be rooting for the 49ers. I hope that between now and then the racist jerks making ‘thug’ comments about Mr. Sherman – or any Black man expressing anything other than ‘yes ma’am’ in the media – get some much-needed education.

Thursday

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What I’m Reading – January 16, 2014

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I’m older now. Sweet.

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A Storm of Swords

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Five stars.

In my quest to get caught up with the “A Song of Ice and Fire” series before season four of Game of Thrones starts (April 6 – mark your calendars!), I powered through book three in a little over a week. I’d enjoyed book one thoroughly, and liked book two, but book three? Holy direwolves, this book is amazing. For those of you who haven’t yet read the books, I’ll be sure to keep this review spoiler free.

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I found I enjoyed this book so much not just because of the quick pace of events, but because what happened really helped develop the characters. I don’t think that it was just plot device after plot device; each bit that moved the plot forward also increased my understanding of the characters – their motivation, their personality, and how some of them may have been too easily thrust into the good and evil roles. To me, some things had been pretty clear through the first two books, but the knowledge gained throughout book three makes me really reevaluate a lot of it.

One area I really appreciated in this book was the writing of the female characters. Cersei isn’t just some plotting manipulator; she’s a mother who is trying to sort out how to deal with this child who is now her king. Sansa isn’t just a simple, sweet girl who is doing her duty; she’s growing up more and more, recognizing the complexities of the world she inhabits. Arya, who has been a favorite character of mine since the beginning (not exactly an original position, I know), grows as well, and I’m intrigued by what will happen next with her. And Daenyers – her maturity and cunning is staggering.

And the men are complex, too. They aren’t just warriors or lords; they have complicated feelings. I am annoyed that Mr. Martin didn’t decide to flip things around a bit in his world – making it a patriarchy seems a bit too easy – but working within the world he has created, I think he’s done a very good job of examining masculinity and femininity and how these people work with what they have to get where they want and what they want.

And to that end, I remain endlessly impressed with this world Mr. Martin has created. I thought I had forty pages left to read, but forgot about the list of houses and the family members he kindly includes at the end of each book. The characters, the histories of the houses and the kingdoms, the religions and customs – it’s amazing to think that this has all come from one man’s mind. I can’t wait to start the next book to see what comes next.

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What I’m Reading – January 9, 2013

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Last one of these before my age ticks up another year…