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What I’m Reading – August 21 2013

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I returned the cable box today – we are free. No TV. It’ll take some getting used to, but I have high hopes that we won’t just end up watching things on Netflix streaming every night. I’m only 15 books away from my first full Cannonball. There is much to do!

Speaking of things to do, why not check these out:

– Oh look: the policies of the NYPD don’t appear to be having an impact on crime. Shocking. SHOCKING: Bloomberg and Kelly Aren’t Going to Like the Latest Research on Stop-and-Frisk (via @NYMag)

– Hey! Management training guides perpetuating the idea that women are responsible for getting creepy men to stop being creepy to them: Manager Training Guide Blames Women For Coworkers Who Come On To Them (via @ThinkProgress)

– Go New Mexico! New Mexico County Clerk Begins Issuing Marriage Licenses To Same-Sex Couples (via @ThinkProgress)

– You know what they say – don’t ask the question if you don’t want to know the answer… Exclusive: Results of Congressional ‘Fishing Expedition’ Show Abortion Is Already Highly Regulated, Overwhelmingly Safe (h/t @laurenrankin)

– Well this is terrifying: Astronaut recounts near-drowning on spacewalk, says he felt all alone, felt like eternity (h/t @UNIXSA)

– UGH: Churchgoers Defend St. Louis Priest Accused of Sex Abuse, Pray in Private Meetup Group (h/t @rebeccawatson)

– This article. THIS ARTICLE. So good. Thin Women: I’ve Got Your Back. Could You Get Mine?

Finally, the last video in the Tropes vs. Women in Video Games ‘Damsel in Distress’ collection:

Tuesday

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What I’m Reading – August 20 2013

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I’ve got some cookies cooling on the racks. We’ve just cancelled our cable and so will be TV-free (well, non-streaming-TV) as of tomorrow. It feels awesome, especially since now our internet is RIDICULOUSLY fast. All the better to load more articles …

– From the woman who started #SolidarityIsForWhiteWomen: On Feminist Solidarity and Community: Where Do We Go from Here? (via @Karnythia)

– Well this is fascinating. We have student loan debt in this house and right now it’s absolutely keeping us from buying a home. Can you imagine if undergraduate education in the US were free? How far to free? (h/t @fakedansavage)

– A critique of Orange is the New Black: Orange is NOT the New Black (via @feministegriote)

– Oh hey, something else the U.S. does with respect to crime that no one else does: The Ex-Con Factor (via @jbouie)

– I read one of Mr. Wise’s books and admit that at the time, I liked it. *shudder*: 9 Ways Tim Wise is Fugging Up (h/t @thetrudz)

– Good analysis of Mayor Bloomberg’s hypocrisy: Stop-and-Frisk City: Does Bloomberg Really Care About Kids’ Safety? (via @mollyknefel)

– Ruh Roh Raggy: US doesn’t know what Snowden took, sources say

– Hey. Dr. Phil perpetuates rape culture. Jackass: The vile tweet Dr. Phil deleted (h/t @JessicaValenti)

– Tonight’s FFS: An NYC High Rise Is Putting In Separate Entrances For Rich And Poor Renters (h/t @AngryBlackLady)

Let’s end on a high note – here’s part 2 of Anita Sarkeesian’s “Damsels in Distress” video (CN: this one has some graphic violence):

Monday

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A Song of Ice and Fire: A Clash of Kings

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Lollygagger’s #CBR5 Review #37: A Song of Ice and Fire: A Clash of Kings by George R. R. Martin

I didn’t consume this book in the same manner as the first one in the series. It was on an e-reader instead of paperback, so that possibly had something to do with it; it wasn’t staring up at me from my nightstand, begging to be finished so it could take its rightful place on the bookshelf.

[Spoilers ahead]

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As the title suggests, this book in the series focuses on the fights between Stannis Baratheon, Renly Baratheon, Robb Stark and Joffrey Baratheon (Lannister). Joffrey continues to be a little shit, Renly makes a brief appearance before taking his leave thanks to a creepy death fog baby, Stannis gets all eaten up by some wildfire (well, his troops at least), and Robb wins some battles and loses some he isn’t even fighting (sorry Winterfell). Theon is also a shit, although one can sort of understand how he came to be shit. I have little sympathy for him, but I can imagine a world where he wouldn’t make such piss-poor decisions. Tyrion, as Hand of the King, makes some great decisions, plays and nearly beats Cersei at her own game, and is rewarded with a missing nose.

The women continue to be complex but also frustratingly bound by duties. Cersei is a fascinating character, and one whose perspective is not readily shared, so she’s also a bit of a mystery. When she loses it, it’s interesting. Sansa and Arya are going about their own adventures, both devastating in their own ways. And Daenerys remains in search of ships, braving some pretty rough going to find people who may help (or may not). Jon is also still beyond the wall, Bran and Rickon are doing … things, and Catelyn believes they are dead.

Much like last time, I found myself speed-reading the chapters focused on Arya and Tyrion. I was less interested in most of the rest, although the chapters providing the perspectives on the Blackwater Battle were difficult to put down. The chapters from Bran and Jon’s perspectives were especially boring to me (I just don’t find the beyond the wall stuff that interesting right now; silly political infighting is so much more my speed) and even Martin’s great writing couldn’t keep me interested if anything remotely shiny or pretty were nearby to distract me.

One thing that was sort of fun was seeing things that didn’t show up until the third season of the TV show. Because I’m still catching up to that, my images are colored by what I’ve seen on HBO; I’m looking forward to book three because I know there are things in there that have not yet made it on screen. As for a recommendation – yes. Of course. Read it if you like the TV show. Read it if you don’t like the TV show. Just read it.

Monday

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What I’m Reading – August 19 2013

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Last night the mister and I watched The House I Live In. It’s a fantastic documentary exploring the war on drugs and how that impacts different classes and races. It was phenomenal, and is available on Netflix streaming.

When I’m not watching movies, here’s what I’m reading:

– A different exploration of Bradley Manning: Story of a human being: Who gets to be Bradley Manning? (h/t @melissagira)

– Laurie Penny with a couple more words on sexism: Of course all men don’t hate women. But all men must know they benefit from sexism (via @PennyRed)

– Fantastic read on how to have a more diverse organization via hiring: Hiring Diversity 101 (h/t @shakestweetz)

– This isn’t the best discussion of being a childfree woman, but it’s something: The choice to be child-free is admirable, not selfish (via @jillfilipovic)

– The idea that breastfeeding  is morally superior sort of fascinates me. Here’s a take I’d not seen before: Explaining why, next time, I won’t breastfeed (h/t @TheMamaFesto)

– Oh FFS. Federal Judge Rules In Favor of Anti-Abortion Extremist Angel Dillard (h/t @shakestweetz)

– This is bizarre: Newspapers say their stories about same-sex marriage disappear from Facebook (h/t @fakedansavage)

– For those who roll their eyes at the harassment women get online: Getting to Know My Critics: Cecil Fuson, Sex Offender (via @rebeccawatson)

– An article about the importance of treating interns with respect! And compensating them! What?! Hired unpaid interns or thinking about it? Read this first (h/t @jennydavis)

– Stay classy, NYPD: Brooklyn Father Of 8 Suffers Fatal Heart Attack After Cops Storm His Home (h/t @JamilSmith)

– Not that I could fit into their largest sizes, but I sometimes bought scarves and accessories there. No more: Forever 21 Employees wake up to bad news UPDATE: Company Confirms (h/t @SarahBurris)

– Julian Assange may have done good things with Wikileaks, but don’t forget: He’s not a friend of women. So, you know, 50% of the population: Assange: Our Only Hope is Ron and Rand Paul, Drudge Report (h/t @AngryBlackLady)

– I should have paid more attention to this. It really is a feminist issue: Why Feminists Should Care About the Baby Veronica Case Read more at http://indiancountrytodaymedianetwork.com/2013/08/16/why-feminists-should-care-about-baby-veronica-case-150894#.UhDizrw65DE (h/t @ChiefElk)

– More on vaccination: The truth about vaccinations: Your physician knows more than the University of Google (via @JenniferRaff)

– The mister shared this with me today. VERY good idea: Ethical dilemmas faced by software engineers: A request for real-world examples

– Finally, I just watched all of Anita Sarkeesian’s “Tropes vs. Women in Video Games” web series. It’s really great. Check out Part I here:

Thursday

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Wednesday

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What I’m Reading – August 14 2013

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Another night, another movie. I just watched “Safety Not Guaranteed” on Netflix. It’s pretty fantastic. It’s a small movie but it feels big. It’s very sweet and interesting. I recommend it.

On with the links.

– Well that was a quick turnaround: Hospital agrees to put 15-year-old on transplant list

– An overview of the #solidarityisforwhitewomen tag, from the woman who started it: #SolidarityIsForWhiteWomen: women of color’s issue with digital feminism (via @Karnythia)

– Overview of the Indian Child Welfare Act. Man, I need to read up more on this: The Supreme Court’s War on Indian Children (h/t @ChiefElk)

– Okay. This is funny. Man Creates Very First Website for Women Ever (h/t taralconley)

– Finally, our irony for the evening: Leanin.org’s hiring an intern. An unpaid intern. Yay free labor! Way to limit the pool of candidates to those who have the resources to work for free: Top editor at Sheryl Sandberg’s foundation tries to lean on unpaid intern

Tuesday

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What I’m Reading – August 13 2013

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I just saw “Kick Ass 2” and it was not good. Depressingly not good. Racist, xenophobic gags (a ‘good guy’ actually says at one point “want me to go Saudi Arabia on that hand of yours?” and then cuts it off). Also so much violence not from a comic-book-superhero-place but from a “wait, is this Saw LX?” place. I really enjoyed the first one, and maybe I missed racism and xenophobia in that one, but man, it’s pretty impossible to ignore in this one. Bad. Really bad.

Now that I’m done with depressing fake stuff, here’s some depressing (and not so depressing) real stuff!

– Tired of reading about race and feminism? Too bad! We Need to Talk About Hugo, Race, and Feminism (via @BitchMedia)

– Another article on the HS issue: Yes, This Is About Race (via @redlightvoices)

– Here’s a term I didn’t know until about a week ago: Microaggressions (h/t @stavvers)

You’ll likely notice the @someone after the articles. I realized today that even though I’ve mentioned I get virtually all these links from interesting folks I follow on twitter, it’s appropriate to actually credit them. If it says ‘via’ it’s because I found it directly from the author; if it’s h/t, it’s the person who tweeted about it but isn’t the author.

– And finally, via the Mister, Back to the Future. In 60 seconds.

 

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What I’m Reading – August 12 2013

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Below are articles that have pretty much entirely come to me based on folks I follow on Twitter.

– Look who’s come around and embraced science: CNN’s Gupta: I Was Wrong About Marijuana

– Stop it, pro-British folks: Northern Ireland clashes leave 56 police, 2 civilians injured

– Do better, SSa: Social Security Payments Limited To Same-Sex Married Couples Living In States That Recognize Marriage Equality

– CA Legislature spreading ‘San Francisco Values.’ Sweet! CA Governor Signs Transgender Student Bill

– Oh so we’re denying organs to kids because they’ve had legal troubles? FFS Dying Teen Is Being Denied A Heart Transplant Because He’s Had Trouble With The Law

– Well that’s fantastic. Also, Mayor Bloomberg and Ray Kelly? You’re done. Just stop. Judge Rejects New York’s Stop-and-Frisk Policy

– No idea who HS is? You’re lucky: When Will We Stop Talking About Hugo Schwyzer? Whenever His Victims Want To Stop, Damn It.

– I’ve only just learned about him, and I’m embarrassed for how Big Feminism has handled itself: An Open Letter to Big Feminist Media Regarding Hugo Schwyzer

– Man, I wish I could have seen this live: Jessica Luther’s Talk from the Opening Plenary of Forging Justice

– Why do these disgusting places get *any* taxpayer dollars? The Trojan Horse of the Anti-Choice Movement

– In today’s “Football Player Rapist” news: Four former Vanderbilt football players charged with rape of unconscious woman

– Finally, if you’re on twitter, please go check out #SolidarityIsForWhiteWomen. It is an AMAZING tag started by a woman of color that is good for all of us privileged white women to read, understand, and learn from.

Saturday

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Self-Inflicted Wounds: Heartwarming Tales of Epic Humiliation

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Another audio book read by the author, another worthwhile Audible purchase.aisha

You know Aisha Tyler. She was host of Talk Soup, started out as a stand-up comic, and once penned an epic takedown of those questioning her gamer cred (go read it now: https://www.facebook.com/notes/aisha-tyler/dear-gamers/10151040991508993. I’ll wait). She’s the voice of Lana on Archer, one of the best shows on television. (Fun fact, my husband and I plan to name our next two kittens Lana and Archer, just so we can comically shout at them around the house. LANAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA.)

I didn’t know that this is Ms. Tyler’s second book. I’ll have to check out the first one because this one?  Is funny. It’s not a traditional memoir, although it does appear to vaguely follow a steady chronology. The whole point of the book is for Ms. Tyler to point out some of the epic fails of her life, embracing the choices that other people would shake their heads at. Instead of shying away from the ill-advised mock-turtlenecks of her early acapella career, or ignoring the multiple times she’s had some challenges with fire, she tells the tales of her errors with colorful language, self-deprecation (where warranted) and a whole lot of self-awareness. The point of the book isn’t ‘learn from my mistakes’ so much as ‘I made mistakes and it was awesome, so go make some of your own to learn from.’

Because I listened to instead of read the book, I’m not easily able to quote specific lines that made me choke on my lunch or have to stifle a laugh so hard I couldn’t breathe (the danger of listening at work). But they are there, and they are many. The specifics of stories may not be relatable to you in some ways (perhaps you’ve never attended a kegger at a college, or flipped ass over teakettle on a rusty hobby horse), but the feelings, the decisions, the consequences – those are infinitely relatable.

The audio was a pure joy to listen to as well. Perhaps due in part to her experience as a voice-over actor, and part because these are her words, the stories jumped out of the headphones as vividly as if I’d been watching them as a flashback. I was close to tears during the thirty seconds where she imitates her dad telling the primary school-aged Aisha motivational phrases that the tiny she then repeated back. It’s good. So add it to your list for the next road trip / long flight / commute to work, as long as you’re okay with people staring at you when you occasionally laugh until you snort.

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What I’m Reading – August 9 2013

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Friday fun on the Hill. Cider, rum and shuffleboard. But now back to some sobering stuff.

– Good discussion on sexual assault in Egypt: Exploiting Egypt’s Rape Culture for Political Gain

– You can’t hide behind the ideals of academic freedom if your piece isn’t, you know, academic: In Sheep’s Clothing: When Prejudice Hijacks Research to Justify Racist Policy

– Breastfeeding isn’t indecent, folks: Lucy Eades, Breastfeeding Mom, Puts Woman Who Asked Her To ‘Cover Up’ In Her Place

Sexism and abuse isn’t only on Twitter: one woman’s gaming experience